The role of communication in any kind of relationship is crucial. It is the way to let the other person know about your feelings, your thoughts, and your intentions. And there’s literally nothing more important in a relationship than to know your partner better. But for that to happen you need proper communication between you two. As some relationship experts quote, “Without a doubt, communication is the most important skill to have in any relationship,” says Dr. Michele Kerulis. The importance of communication can also be seen as a conflict resolver. If there’s any problem going on between you and your partner, it can not be resolved unless you talk about it to each other with transparency.
Disagreeing or having an argument with your partner is a common thing and to be honest, it is healthy for your relationship because that means you are able to express yourself in front of your partner, but not saying anything and having piled up emotions inside you can really make a person frustrated and exhausted from the relationship. And in this way you are also keeping your partner from knowing the real you. But even if you don’t have proper communication with your partner, don’t worry, because below we have listed some of the easiest ways on how you can better communication between you two in order to strengthen the relationship.
1. Ask Them Regularly About How They Are?
Checking on your partner is a really important step to better the communication in your relationship. A simple “How You Doing?”, “How was your day?” wouldn’t hurt. Plus it will also make your partner feel loved and cared in a relationship. This will help you develop a habit of communicating with each other.
2. Reach Out Instead Of Assuming
Psychologist Sameera Sullivan says, “Assumptions and mind-reading usually lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings”. So it is better to reach out instead of just assuming that you know what they are thinking. Sometimes misunderstandings are created because of bad communication, that will really ruin your relationship, so to prevent that, asking is always a better option. This also clarifies the relationships expectations straight.
3. Flirt With Your Partner
Not all aspects of communicating are serious, some are fun too. Like flirting. Regardless of how bad you are at flirting, you should always flirt with your partner every now and then. Not only it will bring a spark in your relationship, but it will also help you build a strong foundation.
4. Compliment Each Other
You may feel that communication is about those long never-ending conversations to your partner, but honestly, it’s maintaining the little things. Complimenting each other is a great way to make the other person know about how you feel about them.
5. Say “Thank You”
As quoted by Samantha Burns who is a relationship counselor and dating coach, “A great way to build intimacy is expressing gratitude for something thoughtful your partner did that day.” Communicating is not that complicated guys.
6. Talk If Something Is Bothering You
If you are having a lot of stress from work or family, and for that reason, you are acting cold and distant with your partner, so it is obvious that your partner will think that he/she did something wrong. This will not only make your partner depress but it will also build unnecessary frustration in your relationship.
Sharing things will eliminate the chances of having any misunderstanding, plus once you talk to your partner about your stress, you will automatically start to feel better.
7. Respond and Listen
Responding and Listening is basically what the whole concept of communicating is all about. If your partner asks you about something or your feelings, respond instead of holding grudges. And whenever your partner is sharing his/her feelings with you, you should be present for them mentally. It’s as simple as that.
8. Discuss Your Fantasies
To build a real connection with your partner, you should be able to openly talk about your fantasies. This will also help you have good communication, solid trust, excitement, and all these factors will help you nourish your relationship.
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Hope these tips help you strengthen your relationship.