Men are mostly of few words. Women will have five bffs with whom she shares her anxieties, wardrobe collection, booze bottles, relationship troubles and what not. And men, on the other hand, will have one brother or friend who would still not know half of the things going on in his life. That is often why men are misunderstood in relationships. Let’s check out what are the common Debunking Relationship Myths Regarding Men.
They Love Less Than Women Because They Forget Dates
Women are obsessed with dates. Be it of a fight, first movie, first anniversary, first sex, birthdays, best friend’s birthdays etc. Phew! How much can a man remember? Well, that is often why women assume they love less and care least. But that is not at all true. Men often tend to forget dates, of course a bad mistake. However, remind your boyfriend or spouse once and he will make sure to surprise you with the candle light dinner at a rooftop hotel or book movie tickets of your favourite hero.
All Men Want is SEX
Is it? Because men are often seen listening to their girlfriends’/wives’ non-stop rants about creepy office guy or her bitch boss. They would observe you looking at a dress at a shopping mall for too long and instantly decide to buy it for you even when the budget is tight. Be it Sunday morning pamper or Friday night cuddles, men know how to treat their women right. See deep through your partners.
They Are Emotionally Blunt
Just because they did not shed tears in a fight or made a straight face even when Tony Stark died at the end of Avengers Endgame doesn’t necessarily mean they are emotionally handicapped. It means that society has put their age old stereotypes on them making it strict that “Men don’t cry”. However, you will see your father move away and shed a drop or two when you are marrying off. Or, your husband might hide his tears seeing his baby boy for the first time. That’s rare but that happens.
Breakups Affect Them Less
Well, just because men don’t start off with their impulsive shopping trivia or call up a bff at 3 in the morning after a break up does not mean they do not have a hard time after breakups. C’mon, let’s face it that they were in the relationship too and if you really loved each other, it would hurt him as much. Men have the tendency to work harder when they are hurt or shut themselves off much like many women do.
Boyfriends change after marriage.
Boyfriends just sometimes get insanely responsible forget (like dates) that romance is missing. They also get stuck between mothers and wives and every man knows the sad story of it. Isn’t it?
Do you have a different myth about your man? Let us know about Debunking Relationship Myths Regarding Men that you believe in!