Relationships have been made very complicated in the modern scenario. Since options are more, people tend to get astray or maybe they wish to explore those options.
However, that is not how LOVE works. Love doesn’t care for other options and people fail to understand that. Committed men and women are found on dating apps like Tinder, OkCupid etc even though they are in happy relationships. Which couple doesn’t fight? But if you ask them today, either the answer would be to check out how these dating apps work or to go for finding the best partner for them. Well, and then is love about finding the best possible mate? And even if you manage to find him/her, what is the guarantee that he or she is “The One”?
Relationships or love don’t come with a warranty card. It is like a baby who requires time, attention and proper nurture. Otherwise, a decline is must be it today or three years after. It is important to realize that your partner might not be the best one for you and that shouldn’t matter because when you fell for him/her, you didn’t plan on being with only the best one. Instead you wanted the other person for who they are. That should remain intact. In any relationship, individual space is essential which doesn’t belong even to your partner and you can share a bond with just yourself. However, make sure your individual space is not in any way hampering your relationship or is not widening to become a gulf between you and your partner.
Loyalty is another obscure gem in this era. Men and women today have come to try out hook ups, random meetings, blind date and friends with benefits. Long term relationships are being considered tedious, exhausting and time consuming. However, the sweetness and care that you get in relationships are craved for and that adds to the monotony of their lives. However, loyalty much like homemade food never gets old. If you need to spice things up, why go elsewhere? Plan a weekend trip or a weekend at home, just you and your partner.
Most of the couples split up because they spend more browsing their phones than talking to each other. Office, work, responsibilities should not end the communication that you two had. Remember, fights can be resolved, miscommunication can be sorted out and there is absolutely nothing (except if you are cheating or beating other one up), problems can be ended simply with talking. Forget posting pictures on Instagram or Facebook and stop validating your relationship by what others are saying. You are into it, not anyone else.
Remember these tips to a healthy relationship add your own thoughts as per your convenience and don’t stop loving.