First Impression is the last impression, we all are familiar with this phrase which is indeed true. Your first impression on the person can influence your upcoming encounters with them or even make them have a perspective about you on the basis of that, so it is really important to make a good impression on anyone that you are meeting for the first time. When it comes to dating, people can be a little more judgemental, they pick on little things and notice everything from your appearance to attitude to make sure that the person they are dating is a good pick.
Your chances of having a second date with them entirely depend on how the first one goes because obviously, nobody wants to go through an unpleasant situation twice intentionally. So make sure, the experience of your date is pleasant for the other person. Even though, you can not control everything however there’s some damage control that you can do from your end that will leave a good impression on them.
First Things First, On Your First Date:
1. Maintain A Good Eye-contact
Lack of eye contact will make you seem nervous in front of them that will bring the awkward tension between you two. And that is definitely not a good sign.
2. Don’t Use Your Phone Too Much
It is natural that the other person will start feeling unwanted if you use your phone too much on the date. They will feel like you are more interest in your phone than them and it will drop your chances of having a second date.
3. Don’t Talk About Yourself The Entire Time
If you are going on and on about yourself the entire time the other person will soon lose interest in the conversation. Show some interest in getting to know the other person.
4. A Good Handshake Is The Key
Whenever you shake their hand make sure it’s not too loose or not too tight. Just put the right amount of force and there you go.
5. Use Their Name
No matter how shy you are to call their name, again and again, you should give it a try because it will help you in personalizing the convo.
6. Don’t Share Too Much
Even if you consider yourself an open book, there should be a limit on how much you share on your first date. Too much information can really repel your date. Also, people are always curious when there’s a mystery.
7. Don’t Let The Convo Die
If there’s too much awkward silence between you two, the chances of getting a second date will be really low. Try to talk about topics the other person will be interested in, it will break the silence also it will make the convo alive.
8. LISTEN to your date
When the other person is talking you should always listen because listeners get a plus point. If you act like you are not interested or let your eyes wander here and there when they talk they will instantly be repelled.
Lets see if you can score a second date with your partner using these techniques. All the very best.